FREE ESSAY ON CONFLICTS AND RELATIONSHIPS

CONFLICTS AND RELATIONSHIPS

Conflicts in Relationships
by James Carvill
In Othello, the Moor of Venice by Shakespeare, A Doll House by Henrik Ibsen, Oedipus Rex
by Sophocles, and The Glass Managerie by Tennessee Williams involve relationships and the
development of the characters through conflicts in their relationships. For Othello it
was Iago's deception and Othello's jealousy, and for Nora and Torvald in A Doll House it
was their doomed marriage, In Oedipus Rex the prophecy doomed Oedipus to marry his
mother, and in The Glass Managerie it was the Laura's special condition and the love she
feels for Jim O'Connor and the dependence on her brother Tom. 
Throughout Shakespeare's Othello, the Moor of Venice the character of Othello becomes a
victim of his own jealousy and of Iago's betrayal. These become apparent throughout the
play and lead to his demise. 
The character of Othello becomes infatuated with a young, white, Venetian girl Desdemona
and quickly elopes with her. Othello is then presented with the possibility that
Desdemona is unfaithful through the scheming work of Iago. The betrayal by Iago presents
Othello to question the loyalty of Desdemona alleged lover Cassio who happens to be his
trusted lieutenant. This scheming by Iago to conceals his jealousy of Desdemona marrying
Othello and allows him revenge against Othello for eloping with Desdemona. Iago knows he
must gain the respect of Othello. "In good time, must his Lieutenant be"(I.i.32). Iago
has the stage set to take advantage of Othello's suspicion of Cassio. He then convinces
Othello that her infidelity is true as he saw Cassio with Desdemona's handkerchief. "By
Heaven, that should be my handkerchief"(IV.i.147). This whole scene then plays in to
Iago's plan "And to see how he prizes the foolish woman your wife?" (IV.i.163).
The love for his wife is conveyed, as he can not bear to live knowing that his wife has
become a whore. "Aye, let her rot, and perish, and be dammed tonight, for she shall not
live"(IV.i.168). This statement demonstrates the success of Iago's deception that he has
convinced him enough that he will kill his wife because he truly loves her. The betrayal
of Iago is now complete. The jealous and insane Othello sets out to set right the
infidelity of his wife by killing her. 
The trust of Iago convinced Othello to change into a mad and vengeful lover out for
revenge. This, indeed, led to his downfall and also to every one involved in the scheming
work of Iago. This evil work of Iago manipulated the characters in the play to act
against any reason. And for this Othello and Desdemona paid with their lives. It is
ironic, however, that sometimes your enemies can be the closest and dearest companions.
And their betrayal can have dire repercussions 
The characters of Nora and Torvald Helmer in A Doll House by Henrik Ibsen represent the
elements of an unsuccessful marriage and throughout the play their selfish and secluded
behavior becomes visible. It is these elements that allow the reader the notion that Nora
and Torvald's relationship was doomed in the beginning. 
The initial conflict begins with the opening scene where Torvald and Nora are discussing
finances. It becomes apparent to the nature of Nora's upbringing. Her wealth as a child
and her extravagant spends lead to the initial conflict with Torvald. Torvald says," We
certainly don't have money to waste." This is his response to her spending. This is the
nature of her personality the " playfulness" that makes the audience wonders if her
relationship with Torvald is "playing" around also. The personality differences between
them, Torvald being concentrated and hard at work and Nora's playfulness as a little
"squirrel" are visible as the dialogue discusses Torvald's obsession with remaining debt
free as they discuss finances and his recent promotion. 
Nora's loan from Krogstad becomes the final act that destroys her relationship with
Torvald. Her true nature and playfulness are overwhelming. Torvald is ignorant to the
workings of Nora's debt and finally becomes informed as he reads the letter delivered
from Krogstad. He then explodes as his anger for the act that his wife has committed but
because of his unconditional love for his wife he forgives her. " I have forgiven you for
everything. Of course I know that what you did was for love of me." Her response is to
abandon her family because that they both lack the understanding of one another. 
The conflicts raised by the loan from Krogstad arouse the distance between Nora and
Torvald. Their lack of sacrifice for one another and the loan issue have brought them to
realize that their clouded views of each other and neither one is as Nora stated," I have
been living here for eight years with a stranger." And just as the dialogue ends she is
compelled to leave her husband. 
Throughout Oedipus Rex by Sophocles the tragedy of the incestuous relationship becomes
apparent. This idea becomes fundamental in recognizing the tragedy involved in this
story. The Oracle's prediction of the king and Queen's child and their total denial of
the fate that they are to face provide the basis for Oedipus' parents become aware of the
fate of their child and fear the Oracle's prediction. 
The relationship between Oedipus and Jocasta is one of mutual love and respect. Both
Oedipus and Jocasta enjoy their relationship and confide in each as lovers. They grow
together and know the intimate secrets of each other. Soon enough they discover their
real relationship as mother and son. The relationship then becomes one forbidden and
incestuous. The sense shame and humiliation provide the inspiration for Jocasta to hang
herself. This act relieves her of all the guilt felt as the oracle's prediction became
fulfilled. Oedipus' reaction to this news results in him gouging out his eyes and wanting
to be sent into exile. 
These final acts of shame allow Oedipus and Jocasta the means for expression of their
grief and allow them a certain means of escape from this tragic relationship. It is the
knowledge that has set them free and allows for the final fulfillment of their fate. 
In The Glass Managerie by Tennessee Williams the brief relationship between Laura and Jim
is life altering for Laura and changes her relationship with her brother Tom. This
dependant relationship is the direct result of Laura' s condition and her family's view
of her as a " The Glass Managerie". 
The relationship she has with her brother is on the based not only on his loyalty to her
special needs and but also his loyalty to his family that is financial reliance of him as
the provider. This is evident as in an argument with his mother, Amanda because of a
novel borrowed from the library says, " House, house! Who pays rent on it, who makes a
slave of himself?" His loyalty to his sister and his mother is greater than that of his
driving desire to escape. 
Tom's devotion to his family can be noticed as they call upon him to bring home a "
Gentleman callers" because they desire Laura to get married like every other regular
person. However it is his idea to treat her with care for he views his sister as a
fragile object such as that as the fragile glass that she collects. It is her fear that
she will grow up and become " An old maid". It is very apparent that both her brother Tom
and Mother Amanda care for her too much and have not allowed her to grow past their
protective barrier. When Tom brings his friend from work who happens to is Laura's old
crush Jim O'Connor. It becomes an opportunity for her to meet her first true love,
however as she discovers he truly believes that she is pretty and admits his attraction
to her. His engagement to a long time girlfriend forbids him from them possibly dating.
At this point the naive, young, and sheltered Laura becomes the broken glass figures that
she collects. It is Tom's intention to break the fragile nature of his sister and
introduce new feelings. This act allows him to escape because his sister must now learn
to cope and survive. As hard as it is he abandons his family because that is what is best
for both him and his family. 
Tom's loyalty to his family resulted in his abandonment of them. It was his desire for
his family to grow and for that reason he was compelled to abandon them. He ended his
relationship with Laura to allow her independence even if it meant her working harder and
also allowing her to focus on what she desires.
Throughout these plays the characters all dealt with issues that troubled their
relationships. Dealing with them meant stirring up greater conflicts that have lain
dormant since the beginning of all of the character relationships. Then dealing with the
repercussions. The character of Othello suffered greatly for his jealousy and suspicion
of Desdemona's infidelity both emotionally and physically after he murdered his wife. The
conflict in Oedipus Rex had a similar outcome to that of Othello however for Oedipus it
meant intentional blindness and exile. Oedipus raised the issue of overcoming the
Oracle's prediction and dealing with the unfortunate. The marriage of Torvald and Nora
resulted in the couple dealing with their incapability as lovers and husband and wife
through out the play this became a major factor to try to aid in their struggling
relationship. The failure of their marriage was a direct result of their struggles to
communicate, which lead Nora to leave. And finally for Tom leaving his sister and mother
he is giving them freedom to grow because he does not want them to be dependant on him.
The concept of abandonment for loving a spouse too much was prevalent in all of these
plays and is the reason for many of the disagreements. It is this constant struggle and
lack of control that drove the marriages and spousal relationships apart.